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I 21f dating a 25m has been in a relationship with my partner for almost a year now, and something has been bothering me more and more.
He has never clearly said that he loves me. Not once in a direct way.
Recently, I asked him why he doesn’t say it, and his response was: “Do you want me to love you like that?” and also “Not everyone who’s in a relationship is in love.”
That really confused me. Because to me, being in a relationship for this long naturally involves love, or at least moving towards it.
It’s not just about the words, but the way he said it felt dismissive, like I was asking for something unreasonable.
I don’t expect constant reassurance, but I do expect clarity about where we stand emotionally. Especially after almost a year together.
Now I’m questioning:
- Is he just not expressive with words?
- Or is he genuinely not in love with me?
- And if that’s the case, what does this relationship even mean to him?
I’m trying to understand if I’m expecting too much, or if this is a valid concern.
TLDR: Been with my partner almost a year, he’s never said he loves me and recently said not everyone in a relationship is in love. Now I’m confused about what this relationship actually is.
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