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I’m really struggling to understand my relationship of two years right now.

My boyfriend keeps giving me mixed signals. Sometimes he says he needs ā€œme timeā€ and ā€œspaceā€ even if we barely talk these days.

When we plan to meet he says he wants to meet me and when it comes to actually showing up, it’s a different story, suddenly work comes up.

When I try to talk during the day, he’s sleepy. At night, same thing he’s too tired again. And recently, we had a big fight. What hurt the most is that he didn’t even check up on me afterward.

Let me tell you another incident since I am looking for a job right now and I am staying home he told me that he wants me to go to work and when I said I want that too so he said not more than me signalling that if I would be busy he can be at peace.

This conversation really stayed with me. It made me feel like I’m the source of his stress rather than someone he cares about.

I feel confused, hurt, and honestly feel a bit unwanted. I don’t know if I’m overreacting or if this is as one-sided as it feels.

2-year relationship where my boyfriend keeps avoiding me—asks for space despite barely talking, cancels plans last minute, is always ā€œtoo tiredā€ to talk, didn’t check on me after a big fight, and said he wants me busy so he can be at peace. I feel unwanted and like I’m the problem. Not sure if I’m overreacting or if this is one-sided.

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