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I’m 29 and she’s 37. together 8 months.I love her a lot she’s a wonderful person. she’s kind to me. she is attractive. she’s fun. she’s a lot what you would want in a partner.

except she doesn’t think long term. at all. she’s very much a live in the present kind of girl im a long term planner. and with our age gap that makes me incredibly anxious.

lm struggling to see a long term future with her where I have everything I want down the line. like kids, a family, a wife etc. she doesnt see this as an issue. I don’t need a lecture on her age and kids I get it. I know. But she seems fine with it. except if she doesn’t plan long term…

she said she was gonna freeze her eggs in september. that was meant to be the thing to extend a timeline. she still hasn’t.

she wants me to go travelling and go to her best friends wedding with her in another country. Yesterday I said I wont do that until I know her timeline better and she got upset. Saying she can’t put a relationship on hold because I need something she won’t give. I don’t really understand why she won’t give it

the stress Im feeling is huge but I’d feel incredibly upset and im struggling to function a bittl;dr gf is older and struggling to deal with her communication style and timelineI’m 29 and she’s 37. together 8 months.

I love her a lot she’s a wonderful person. she’s kind to me. she is attractive. she’s fun. she’s a lot what you would want in a partner.

except she doesn’t think long term. at all. she’s very much a live in the present kind of girl im a long term planner. and with our age gap that makes me incredibly anxious.

lm struggling to see a long term future with her where I have everything I want down the line. like kids, a family, a wife etc. she doesnt see this as an issue. I don’t need a lecture on her age and kids I get it. I know. But she seems fine with it. except if she doesn’t plan long term…

she said she was gonna freeze her eggs in september. that was meant to be the thing to extend a timeline. she still hasn’t.

she wants me to go travelling and go to her best friends wedding with her in another country. Yesterday I said I wont do that until I know her timeline better and she got upset. Saying she can’t put a relationship on hold because I need something she won’t give. I don’t really understand why she won’t give it

the stress Im feeling is huge but I’d feel incredibly upset and im struggling to function a bit

tl;dr gf is older and struggling to deal with her communication style and timeline1

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