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Me (27m) and my current “girlfriend” (25f) are going through a weird spot. We broke up about a month ago but have seen eachother a few times since. We have been together for around 10 months before that.

There was a big disruption at her work which caused her to look for jobs in other cities. This was hard for me to see which caused a conversation before we went out with friends one night. We put it on pause then when we got home after a couple of drinks things came to an end.

There were a couple problems we had but all of them seemed pretty tame in the grand scheme of relationships. She is a little more avoidant and I am a little anxious but about a week before we broke up she said she was happy to work on my anxieties to help strengthen our bond. She even called me her person.

The next week a bunch of turmoil happened at her work, she still has a job but is looking to move. While I think some of our problems needed to be addressed, I don’t think it would have ended if not for the external work factor.

We agreed to see eachother about a week after and I proposed seeing each other more casually while she figures out her future path. One of our problems was that she felt I put too much pressure the relationship so I was trying to adjust. She said she would think about it.

We saw each other about 10 days later (she was away). She came over to a new property I purchased and I showed her around. We were quite intimate but when it came to talking about where we stand she was completely unsure. She says she still feels the strong connection in person and doing something more casual doesn’t feel authentic. She also agreed that seeing other people wouldn’t feel right.

She proposed we see each other 10 days later again. The coming Sunday we are supposed to talk again. I can feel the distance growing and am unsure if I’m holding on to something that is fading. Seeing her in person feels like nothing has changed but then there is basically no contact in between.

It feels like I’m sitting in limbo right now. I really wish she would just commit to trying to figure things out especially considering the fact she hasn’t even decided to leave yet. I’m definitely more of a lover and feel love is worth the risk of heartbreak while she seems to be preparing for the distance and would just rather give up what we have. The distance between each meeting makes me feel so anxious and I would just hope for a little more consistency without heavy future commitments.

I’m just wondering if I should just let this go or if I should try to keep things going while she figures out her life? I’ve always felt secondary to her career but she doesn’t even have a solid prospect for leaving right now.

Only days before she learned about all the turmoil at work, we sat at a restaurant together saying why we chose each other and talking about potential future plans. Even saying if she ever moved we would try to make something work.

Do I walk away? Do I hold on? Is there even a future? The thing that bothers me most is that she threw away a pretty strong relationship as soon as there was some uncertainty. I don’t think I can continue on only seeing her every 10 days.